When the time is right......

•When you reach a certain age, you start noticing certain things about the opposite gender that you never paid attention to before. When you notice these things could vary anywhere from 10 to 16 years of age. <<<<<<<<<<<<<



•Usually if you’re a boy, you end up noticing girls, and vice-versa. But let’s say you’re a boy and you see girls as you always did, but then you start thinking about boys. It never occurs to you that there’s something wrong till after a while. Then you start to wonder: “Why is everyone in my class dancing and going out with someone, but I just don’t feel the urge to?” Well, there are three possibilities. ==============

1. Maybe you just don’t like anyone in your class. (And if it’s reason three, let me tell you this one is a good excuse if anyone asks you why you’re not going out with anyone.)
2. You just haven’t developed in that area yet. At our age, it’s different with everybody.
3. Guess what? You might be gay. That’s it. You might feel strange, left out, you might giggle to yourself when you see class mates dancing together for the first time at a dance party--or a social, as they’re sometimes called.

Tip:
Take my advice, dance with a girl (if you're asked to).
You’re not getting married, it’s a harmless dance.
Just don’t try to pretend your straight--you’ll get
nervous. This doesn’t mean tell her you’re gay, just
go with it. Dance. You’ll feel better about yourself
--and won’t have dissapointed her.

Another Tip:
If you think you're gay, it's okay.
Calm down, it isn't the end of the world.
Just keep these four things in mind:
1. You are still you.
2. You are still a human being.
3. There are other people out there who feel the same way as __you do.
4. You don’t have to tell anyone if you don’t want to.